Artisan philosophy regarding Children (pastors):
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We realize that much of society encourages the use of childcare in order to provide appropriate, age-specific play and instruction for children while allowing the adult to focus his and/or her attentions completely on the task at hand (work, shopping, worship, etc.). While this may be a societal norm, we believe another solution is more Biblical and healthier for the child, the adult(s), and the church body.
Children need the contact of their parents or guardians for emotional, mental, and spiritual health. Amidst daycare, school, extracurricular activities, and hobbies we believe the worship gathering should stand as a place to unify a family in a society that favors fracturing it. Unfortunately many of the models of children’s ministry in North American Evangelicalism do just that. From Infant Care all the way up through High School Youth Ministry, children are separated from adults and the adult worship gathering. We have lost sight of the biblical instruction to train up our children, passing on our faith to the third and fourth generations.
Unfortunately, Christianity today has turned overwhelmingly inward focused. The myth is that in order for a person to grow spiritually one must always do so on an individual basis. This also often results in a “me” centered approach to worship (e.g. I only worship with hymn/rock/praise/ organ music, I didn’t get much out of worship today, etc.).
We recognize that a parent/guardian watching a one year old, for example, will not be able to focus 100% of his or her attention on the worship or message. However, we also recognize the incredible blessing of a parent/guardian and child(ren) learning and growing as a family. Keeping the family together will naturally allow conversation about what was spoken, sung, or enacted during a Sunday worship time to flow into the remainder of the week and life. Children that have always observed their parents praying, singing, and learning will be more likely to desire to do the same as they mature.
The trend in modern evangelicalism is for churches to have to reinvent themselves every twenty years or so. We believe this is because the current children and youth ministry model separates children from the adult worship. As children grow into adults, especially during the formative teen years, our youth begin to identify and come to embrace their place of worship and ministry which, unfortunately, is something completely different from the adult worship. The result is a generation of youth that leave the youth program after High School and enter a worship space and style they have never known. This also creates a void in the adult worship where subsequent generations have not been involved in the gradual maturation and shaping of the church. Instead of change occurring in smaller increments that speak to and reach the younger generations, huge leaps of style and method are now necessary (e.g. the “Traditional” vs. “Contemporary” worship controversy).
Allowing our children to influence the shape and style of our worship gatherings encourages a sense of place and ownership. Theoretically it will avoid the problem of a church worship style losing touch with the world it finds itself in.
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