After wrestling for about a month with this I decied to tackle the story of Song of Songs with 4-8 year olds! We are all still alive and well. Here's the scoop.
The kids stayed in service for the opening and confession and then they had their own time in their own space. Before we even started, C (4 yrs old) was excited because she had learned the first song at the beginning of service.That was cool! Two songs we could have done (but didn't): "His Banner over Me is Love" (we did that two Sundays ago?) and "I Will Rejoice in You and Be Glad" (another oldie) "As a Doe" might work, too.
Pruned it to a picture book format of 32 short pages but ended up having to skip a lot of it to keep things moving. If I did it again I would seriously prune the story to at least half of what I did. A picture book story is more clearly a story and faster paced.
We focused on things in the story: things to see, hear, taste, smell, touch. So we were trying to give them words and language and experiences and memories to go with the words as the place to start interacting with the Word. I think that part worked. I think it worked especially well.
Our eight year old was right with me. I think he enjoyed it the most. Our two four year olds were torn between wanting to play and wanting to hear the story.
We also noticed eyes, hair, etc etc. A neck like a tower was pretty funny. We used a necklace and earrings.
We included the smell of spilled perfume and blew it around with pieces of paper for wind. We had lots of foods to tastes from the story. They like cashew nuts. Not crazy about the figs, but they tried them!
One of the four year olds
Next week one of the moms is doing different prayer stations with the kids. Should be fun!
Sounds great. I'm happy for you. I can see that this lesson went very well for you.
ReplyDeleteI think it is a good idea to go with telling the story as a King and a Girl (as that is what the text literally says). I also think it kind of becomes a fairy tale (think mideval era) that the children can relate to because they have seen similar stories.
The reason that relation is important is because it shows that the Bible tells stories about love just like some fairy tales do.
I'm glad to see you tackle such a difficult story.